40+ years ago, we couldn’t keep our hands off each other, it seemed. We were in the touchy, huggy stage of our relationship. Today he lays on the couch with the remote in his hands, flipping the channels on the TV, while I’m sitting in my recliner, just a few feet away, reading, writing, or maybe even dozing.
And you online dating shouldn’t assume that everyone using the Internet is desperate. In my case, I had just moved to a new state and didn’t know anyone. And my wife lived in a town of about 100 people who were all related to each other. There are legitimate, decent people who are just looking to find that someone special and you have a good chance of meeting that person who makes you happy the rest of your life. You just need to find them.
The next powerful step in attracting your soul mate is to raise your vibration. The key to finding true love is to keep that vibration high. We operate on a frequency and when our vibration rises, we are more attuned to the spiritual realm. We can more clearly hear, see and feel the angels and celestial beings who will whisper instructions in your ear or your heart to follow to unite with your soul mate. Please listen to these instructions as they will come more frequently as you live a more spiritual life. When you live from this quickened state, you are a magnet for love because you radiate peace, love and joy and an energy that your soul mate cannot resist!
Don’t date. Sometimes people try and throw themselves into Promo girls, partly to mitigate the pain and sometimes as an imagined way to get even. Don’t. It’s better to wait until you’ve healed a bit. First of all, it’s hardly fair to the person you’re dating to be with them when you aren’t emotionally available, but secondly, it can often backfire, making you miss your ‘X’ even more!
The old adage “you get what to pay for” seriously applies here. To begin with, people who pay to meet someone are usually more serious about meeting a mate. They are so serious that they don’t mind spending a few dollars to fulfill their desire. In their eyes it is money well spent. They put a lot of effort into writing their personal profile, uploading pictures and replying to and sending emails. They are no-nonsense daters. They have moved from simply being curious to really putting themselves out there to meet the right person. This does not mean that free sites aren’t about serious daters. It just means that on average you are likely to find a greater number of serious daters on paid sites.
Keep the message short, fun and playful and text her something that communicates on her emotional level. Start the convo with something she mentioned to you when you met or that she did or that happened at the place where you met her.
Another great idea for a date when going out with a guy who is over 40 is to head to a theater or a show on Broadway. Art exhibits or other options are much better than taking your older man to a club that they just wont feel comfortable at. Take the time to spend special time with that older guy and you may soon find that you are in love and quite happy.